Why Does God Allow Suffering?

By Matt Hellstrom | January 8, 2009

Probably the biggest question for all people, whether they believe in God or not, is why is there so much suffering in this world? This is a question that probably won’t ever be answered until we meet God in person. Many people have opinions, and I’d like to give mine here.

Most people want to be able to have money to pay for their kids college, enough to pay bills and go on vacation once a year. They want to be happy and not have problems. They want to have good health. I’m no different than everyone else. Doesn’t it make sense that God would want the same for us? I don’t think He necessarily does, because He wants more than that for us!

I’ve read many books by Dr. Larry Crabb, best-selling author, psychologist, and counselor, and while they are always excellent and insightful, most of the ones I’ve read have been kind of hard for me to follow, because they’re so intellectual. Some of the books he’s written are “The Marriage Builder”, “Inside Out”, and “Finding God”.

Recently, I discovered another book by Dr. Crabb called “Shattered Dreams – God’s Unexpected Pathway to Joy”. I started reading it and I realized it was different than the others I’ve read by him. It was actually much easier to read, and I could tell from the writing style that this book was intimately important to him, that he had really lived what he was writing here.

In “Shattered Dreams”, Dr. Crabb explains that happiness and joy are not the same thing, and although most of us want happiness, God actually knows that this isn’t the best for us. We believe that it’s important to have plenty of money, good health, a nice car or house, a happy family, and so forth.

The Bible says that God wants to give good things to his children, even more than we want to give good things to our children. So God obviously wants us to be happy, right? That could be true, and while He does want those things for us, if they get in the way of having relationship with Him then He’ll take the relationship every time. That’s where we will find true joy.

However, quite often when we have the happiness, we either become content or we get so wrapped up in keeping that happiness intact that we don’t see the need to find the time for that relationship with God. It is in these times that God might allow some pain to come into our life to draw us closer to him. It’s at these times that many of us tend to do what we can to minimize that pain, basically because it hurts!

Larry Crabb tells us in “Shattered Dreams” that we need to experience that pain and not try to minimize it or turn away from it if we’re going to experience the joy that God desires us to have, and that we really hunger for in our hearts. This is no fun, but the bottom line is that’s it’s the only path to experiencing true joy. After reading this book, I believe that this is why God allows pain and suffering and why bad things happen to good people.

Matt Hellstrom is a husband and father of five beautiful adopted kids. Here are some tips for effective parenting skills that Matt has discovered in the last 15 years. You can also read his opinion about why God allows suffering.

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