Dating Sites: The Dangers To Men

By Jayde Johanssen | August 26, 2009

If you are a man, looking to join an Adult Dating Site, we strongly recommend you read up about the sites you are looking into, read some reviews and do some basic homework before you spend any money on them. There is a problem endemic to adult dating, which if you are not wary, could distract you from what you are supposed to be doing (IE. meeting women in real life) while emptying your wallet at the same time.

The problem is that some women are not actually signed up to these websites to meet you in real life. Rather, they are looking to meet you online so they can get you to sign up to their own website, which is a paid site requiring you to spend money to continue your association with them. These women are always attractive, they are always tempting, and they are always convincing.

This is a brief run down of how the scam works. You join a dating site and pay your membership fee. You see a bunch of girls you’d like to meet and contact them with an email. After a couple of days, you get a few replies. Having communicated a couple of times, these girls will then ask you to join them at their personal site so you can communicate easier.

You may be tempted to follow these instructions and visit the new site. Typically when you get there, you’ll have to create a membership at this website too. Part of this membership will include handing over your credit card details.

So you spend your money and all of a sudden you’ll be introduced to a new world of webcams, where you can chat to a range of very attractive girls in various stages of undress. This will all be pay per view though, so each time you talk to one of these girls, you’ll be paying for it.

Soon enough the original website you joined will bill you for you next month’s membership. And then it will hit you. Not only have you not met any girls yet, but you haven’t even been using the website. What the hell happened to the month? That’s right, you spent it webcamming.

Further you will realise that you have spent way more than you budgeted as you will have paid them to talk to you on their web-cams. And finally (and hopefully by now) you’ll realise these girls never actually want to meet you. So its all lost time and money.

This type of thing happens at most Adult Dating Sites. However, the extent of this problem varies greatly from site to site. That is why our number 1 tip for avoiding this issue is to investigate a few sites before you join them. Only join reputable sites where this problem is less prevalent.

Also, remember the purpose your dating site is supposed to serve. Its supposed to give you the opportunity to meet people you otherwise would not have been able to. That’s all, nothing else. A dating site is not supposed to have a life of its own.

Once that is done, the website’s job is over. From here, you are supposed to correspond, exchange numbers, chat and then meet in the real world. So once you have met someone and started corresponding, what possible purpose is there to joining another site? You have met her already!

One last idea you can try is to only ever be a member of one dating website at a time. So no matter what happens, never join a second dating site until you have quit the one you are already a member of. This will ensure you test each website individually and remain true to online dating. IE. You will use the site to meet women for dating. Only quit and join the next site if you are not getting acceptable results.

If you have tried a few dating sites though and continue to not attract real people, we suggest you stop changing sites and rather look at your internet manner. Setting up a great profile that attracts women and progressing communication to a real life date is a skill. Its something you can research and learn. As always, when things don’t go right at the start, don’t give up. Research, learn from your mistakes and do it better.

In recognising the number of charletons at adult dating sites, Jayde Johanssen encourages men to research dating sites thoroughly prior to spending their cash

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