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Love Lessons 101 - Five Romance Tips For The Guys 
By: Marc Sandford
There are lots of definitions for romance, but those that refer to feelings of excitement associated with love are the best. This excitement can be very playful or intense. If you are a natural romantic, you have it within you to keep your relationship going strong for a long time to come. If you aren't, it can become second nature with some practice.
1.) Centuries ago, love letters and love poetry were very much an artistic production. They're unfashionable today, but things old fashioned and romance seem to go together. Get a book of love poetry, pick one poem and alter it so that she will believe that it was penned by you.
Place it in a box of expensive chocolates and have it gift wrapped.
2.) Go and do something completely unexpected. Women like to be surprised. The thing about surprises is that you are going to do something that you normally wouldn't do.
It may mean getting out of your zone of comfort a bit. If you are the stay-at-home type then try spending the evening (or weekend) on a well planned romantic outing. Planning in advance is important because without one, you'll just rely on the same old routines.
Doing the usual old stuff is not what a surprise is about. There couldn't be anything more unromantic than asking her: "Well? now what?"
If you are the pragmatic, unromantic type, this will seem especially hard to do. But, you've got a major advantage over the experienced romantics: anything romantic coming from you will be huge to her because it's the last thing that she's expecting from you. You have surprise working for you.
3.) If she's had a very stressful work week, then rise early on Saturday morning and prepare her favorite breakfast. Bring it to her on a fancy tray for breakfast in bed. Depending on how stressed out she is, you might permit her some quiet time reading a favorite magazine or book.
4.) An open fireplace has great potential for a romantic evening particularly in the wintertime. Things like a crackling fire along with champagne, some wine, a comfy love seat, and dimmed lights all create the perfect atmosphere for romance. This is especially effective if you're at a getaway such as a skiing lodge, rustic cabin, or an elegant hotel.
5.) When it comes to romance, it isn't necessary to hit the ball out of the park. Grand and noble gestures certainly work but they are difficult to sustain on a daily basis. This is where frequent small gestures of affection are used.
Women tend to appreciate the small gestures and the big ones equally. So try to give her lots of compliments, kisses, hugs, touching, and expressions of appreciation.
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