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3 Reasons Going Out Alone is Great for Meeting Women

There seems to be a stigmatism attached to being alone on the dating scene. "Aloneness" is equated with loneliness - and loneliness with loser-dom. And who is going to go out with the lone geek sitting at the bar having a conversation with no one, right?

The reality is, going out alone can really improve your game when you are trying to meet women. As a matter of fact, there are several reasons why being the lone wolf can heighten your appeal, or your status, to a woman.

First - going out alone gets you over the notion that what other people think - matters. It doesn't. If you want to be a confident alpha male - you have got to be able to overcome the "group mindset". As a pack leader - YOU decide what the pack does, you do not follow.

Second reason - you have no "buddy factor" to worry about. You do not have to worry about your friends embarrassing you, driving off a potential date - or worse - picking up your potential date, or what time they have to be home. You can go wherever you choose, leave when you choose and do what you choose.

Reason three is perhaps the most important reason. Say a beautiful woman asks you who you are at the bar with. This provides a great opportunity to show her your confidence and your cocky/funny attitude. You can reply to her in a confident and secure way, telling her, "I am here by myself - I don't need a babysitter in order to have a great time!"

Of course, these are great reasons to go out on your own - BUT - you also need to walk the walk the rest of the way if you are going to pull this off.

You can certainly take this interaction to the next level, as well. Here is where you can totally peak her attraction - by turning the question around and being a little bit of a "bad boy". When she asks you who you are here with - tell her you are there with HER. She may giggle a little and call you a tease (which is what you want in order to spark her attraction) and then she may ask you again. This is where you tell her, "Look, honey, I just met you and you already want to know all the details of my life? Next week, you are going to be wearing my shirts and calling my Mom to make plans for our honeymoon! Slow down!"

Underneath this little by-play, though, what you are telling here is, "It doesn't MATTER to me who I am here with, I am confident and maybe just a little out of your league." Be cocky, funny and a trifle difficult, and see how attractive you suddenly become to women.

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